13.28 子路问曰：“何如斯可谓之士矣？”子曰：“切切偲偲1，怡怡如也2，可谓士矣。朋友切切偲偲，兄弟怡怡。”
【译文】
子路问道：“怎样才可以叫作士？”孔子说：“互相批评勉励，和睦相处，可以叫作士了。朋友之间互相批评勉励，兄弟之间和顺愉悦。”
【YZG解释】
子路问道：“怎样才可以叫作士？”孔子说：“相互诚恳地切磋勉励，平和喜悦，可以叫作士了。朋友之间诚恳地切磋勉励，兄弟之间平和喜悦。”
【English Translation】
Zi Lu asked: “How can a person be called a scholar?” Confucius said: “The person who sincerely encourages and learns from others, and is gentle and delighted, can be called a scholar. With friends, he sincerely encourages and learns from each other. With brothers, he is gentle and delighted.”